Disappointment

Disappointment– I don’t deal with it well, not well at all. For me I know it stems from years and years upon disappointment with my father. The missed birthdays, the wrong gifts, the broken promises, the un-obligatory feeling he radiates from this actions. Expectations have a way of setting themselves, and even when we lower [...]

Jealousy

When Jealously shows its face, it’s always ugly, very ugly. Wiki says: Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values. I think for some , they can’t deal with their own inadequacy. It stems from [...]

What do you do…

What do you do when… You try your hardest, but nothing seems to work, nothing as at all.. All attempts to connect fail and fall short.. What do you do when.. You put your all of your heart into it and its still not enough and live everyday in an ache What do you do [...]

Quarter Life Crisis

Hey all the day is finally here. I’m 25, the big Quarter and the Quarter life Crisis can begin.. I think I need to trip to Vegas, to deal.  I know someone out there has timeshare!!!!. (OMG is that a grey hair..) There are so many things that one could sit down and pick out [...]

Put Down Your Checklist.

I hope everyone had a happy Single’s Awareness Day aka Valentine’s Day. I’ve I had time to think and process most of the pre-V and post-V day conversations, feelings and emotions. I’ve come to realize that we have glamorized love and relationships to the point of absurdity. We have become so caught up in our [...]

Why Nice Guys Finish Last

We’ve all heard it, maybe most of us have even used it, and some of us live it everyday. Is it true, do Nice Guys finish last? When did being nice, becomes such a troublesome obstacle for so many people. Why does a positive trait, carry such a negative connotation? Well first of all there [...]